Since reading the book how has your relationship with your boyfriend changed? Knowing how often he is looking at other women and why, are you accepting of it or does it bother you? Do you find yourself looking at the women he is looking at and comparing yourself to them? Are you glad you read the book or wish you had not read the book, ‘ignorance is bliss’. I ask these questions because when a relationship has been developed along long-accepted assumptions of male/female behaviors and now those assumptions may not be valid, can the relationship survive?